This was inspired by another recent post where the OP was resoundingly an asshole so I was curious about it. TikTok video from redditsaidit_ (@redditsaidit_): "AITA for refusing to lend my ill, future sister-in-law my wedding dress? TikTok video from llove_lola (@llove_lola): "Bride needs to calm down a little #story #storytime #reddit #storyteller #storytelling #wedding #aita #storie #stories". My husband and I were really upset because we loved the idea of her having a husband and a family, grandchildren for us. She left in a huff and told us to never speak to her again. TikTok video from Two Hot Takes (@twohottakes): "Why would a MIL do this?!?! 3.7K Likes, 140 Comments. I don't have enough money to give them all $50K for a wedding. Except I didn't bring it up constantly to either of them, I just made a simple offer and gave them the option to take it up. We went dress shopping just a few days ago. original sound. That was years ago now. TikTok video from genesis (@_genesisalways): "AITA for paying for another brides wedding dress but not my daughters? Privacy Policy. Her girlfriend got very upset and started calling us homophobic, and my daughter just sat there letting her go off at us. By accepting all cookies, you agree to our use of cookies to deliver and maintain our services and site, improve the quality of Reddit, personalize Reddit content and advertising, and measure the effectiveness of advertising. My daughter was very tempted but she went with a different dress. She asked "So mom, let's go splitsies?" not my daughters? 82.9K Likes, 144 Comments. The 50/50 offer was for one specific dress that she did not chose, she got upset and said I was trying to manipulate her. Dont have a wedding if you cant afford it, AITA for paying for another brides wedding dress but not my daughters? 209K Likes, 1.4K Comments. My daughter-in-law was happy to get the $400 cathedral veil for free and I was happy to give it to her. I gave her & her husband $3K and spent an afternoon working on invitations with her. This was a great way for me to have some input on the wedding in a way that benefits everyone. I have 3 grown children (son, daughter, daughter). . She ended up getting a scholarship to cover a lot of her college so we had about 20k left over, we offered to give to to her at the time and she said shed rather we keep it for when she gets married and we agreed. original sound. AITA for refusing to lend my ill, future sister-in-law my wedding dress. TikTok video from genesis (@_genesisalways): "She hid in the dressing room #aita #storytelling #storytime #bridesmaidzilla #redditstorytime". New comments cannot be posted and votes cannot be cast. About 4 years ago my daughter came out as bi-sexual and started dating a girl, this shocked us a lot because we never saw her as the type. She was going back and forth between two veils that were both over budget. The ENTIRE post is so pretentious. original sound. AITA for paying After trying on a whole bunch of dresses, my youngest daughter asked us all what we thought and I reiterated my original offer: I'll pay for half of THAT dress. So I told them that I can give them $3K each and help with any DIY projects. TikTokaita not paying for wedding dress genesis(@_genesisalways), genesis(@_genesisalways), Lina(@satisfying_videos1234), Lina(@satisfying_videos1234), llove_lola(@llove_lola), Satisfying Videos(@slime_storytelling1), llove_lola(@llove_lola), Lina(@satisfying_videos1234 . Cookie Notice My son's mother-in-law thanked me for my generosity and I said it was my pleasure. My older daughter was VERY upset. By rejecting non-essential cookies, Reddit may still use certain cookies to ensure the proper functionality of our platform. I fell in LOVE with a dress that was a bit more princess-y than my daughter originally had in mind but I made the same offer as I did to my older daughter: I'll pay for half of THIS dress. TikTok video from xenon (@1xen0n): "part 1 #reddit #redditaita #askreddit #redditaitastories #redditstories #xyzbca #wedding #fyp". flats in west byfleet. 138.1K Likes, 1.8K Comments. | 600 Pounds ~$800 USD. and I said no. The prospect of a 1/2 off dress was good enough for her to take it. original sound. #storytime #makeupstorytime #aita #bridezilla". She said it's unfair and that is manipulative. And now my youngest child is engaged for a late 2021 wedding. #makeup #storytime #fyp #makeupstorytime #storytimemakeup #reddit #aita #story #cashapp13plus". #aita #reddit #familydrama #amitheawhole #reddit_tiktok #redditsaidit #redditreadings #redditstories #foryoupage #fyp #fyp #foryou #story #storytime #storytelling #storyteller #wedding #sister". AITA? I am not homophobic I respect same sex couples it is just not what I wanted for my daughter. Thank you for the lovely messages threatening me and calling me a homophobe. Two years ago was my older daughter's wedding. My husband and I started saving for my daughters (28) college fund since she was born, we both worked really hard for our money and we accumulated a lot for her. It was $2300 and gorgeous/timeless. The whole thing was embarrassing coming from a nearly 30 year old adult woman who was about to be a married woman. I saw this and told her that we were planning on using that 20k for renovations now. original sound. She ended up getting a scholarship to cover a lot of her college so we had about 20k left over, we offered to give to to her at . @Sarah Schauer with the hot take. U/TiredNeedleandThread | AITA for not making my friends wedding dress for free? TikTok video from Best reddit stories for you (@reddiit_being_reddit). She questioned us and we were upfront and said we agreed for her to use that money under the assumption she was marrying a man. It was a sensitive topic for a while but everything blew over before the wedding. original sound. and our son original. AITA for not paying for my daughters wedding? U/Certain-Structure699 | Follow for part 2!. TikTok video from dark_and_disturbed (@dark_and_disturbed): "what do you think ? Except I hadn't pressured her at all, I made my offer only once! 1.5K Likes, 245 Comments. My husband and I started saving for my daughters (28) college fund since she was born, we both worked really hard for our money and we accumulated a lot for her. When my son got married three years ago, his wife was such a sweetheart and invited me to go dress shopping with her family. But now we're in a situation where both sisters are upset with each other and my daughter is upset with me. for another brides wedding dress but Edit: Wow I wasnt expecting this reaction. Best reddit stories for you (@reddiit_being_reddit) on TikTok. 978.2K Likes, 20.6K Comments. I told my daughter that I would pay for half the dress if she chose it. original sound. We thought it was just a phase but 4 years later they are still together and they got engaged last month. original sound. TikTok video from llove_lola (@llove_lola): "Dont have a wedding if you cant afford it #bridal #story #storytime #reddit #wedding #aita #friend". #twohottakes #redditreadings #podcast #toxicmil". 9.9K Likes, 901 Comments. Then my daughter said that money was mine and I had it all planned out to use it towards the wedding well no it is our money that we saved with a specific use. For more information, please see our My daughter-in-law found her dream dress and then we looked at veils. When we all went dress shopping (both daughters, myself, my mom) my daughter was indecisive but I really loved one specific dress. My daughter was upset and claimed that it was unfair and if I have the money I should give it to her. Source: Reddit I have rethought my stance and I will be trying to be more understanding of my daughter however I know to never go to this forum again. I think she is being very ungrateful but my other daughter has now turned on us as well and said we are terrible parents. New comments cannot be posted and votes cannot be cast. Log in to follow creators, like videos, and view comments. #aita #bride #wedding #weddingtiktok #family #mom #dad #family #reddit #redditreadings #reddit_tiktok #asktiktok #askontiktok #EasyWithAdobeExpress". Aita for not paying for my daughters wedding dress The best way to avoid the gift tax is pretty simple: If you want to give $15,000, for example, just write two checksone to your daughter. I accepted that she wanted another dress which is completely understandable. Reddit and its partners use cookies and similar technologies to provide you with a better experience. So she bought the dress that I had picked out for her & I paid for half of it. 46.1K Likes, 504 Comments. .tiktok-ze5eiw-SpanViews{-webkit-flex-shrink:0;-ms-flex-negative:0;flex-shrink:0;padding-right:12px;color:rgba(22, 24, 35, .75);}769.6K views|.tiktok-15ooo5t-H4Link{font-family:ProximaNova,Arial,Tahoma,PingFangSC,sans-serif;font-weight:400;font-size:14px;line-height:20px;display:inline;color:rgba(22, 24, 35, .75);margin-left:12px;}.tiktok-15ooo5t-H4Link a{color:rgba(22, 24, 35, .75);}. She asked all of us there to pick out a dress for her to try. | Source: Reddit 117.6K Likes, 2.3K Comments. Asshole. TikTok video from lindsey (@lindseyjohnsonnnn): "part two, what do you think here? I had one that I preferred so I offered to pay for it as a gift if she chose it. They came over to visit and do some wedding planning, she got her journal and it had the finances they put aside for the wedding as well as 20k- Mom & Dad. 3.1K Likes, 227 Comments. 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